I like to talk about parenting and do so quite often. I mean, that is to be expected from someone with a blog named Penniless Parenting if you know what I mean. But seriously, parenting can sometimes be a really lonely experience, because no one is at home with you when you're dealing with your kids other than maybe your partner, if you aren't a single parent, so no one really gets what you're going through. But connecting with other parents and talking about the positives and the challenges is a good way to get support and not feel quite so alone in your parenting. Here are some benefits of sharing about your parenting experiences.
As parents, we all have unique experiences raising our children. We may have different techniques for dealing with the kids, which seem to work. At the same time, parents also have dilemmas along the way. As the children get older, many changes occur, and parents must learn how to adapt to these changes. When they were younger, it was simpler to expect the children to abide by the rules you impose. However, growing up makes them want to be independent and learn how to make their own decisions. A parent must find a healthy balance to maintain communication with their children, allowing them to speak their minds while respecting them.
As you go through life raising children, it would be nice to have people you can talk to about your experiences. They may be parents with similar experiences or new ones who can always use some parenting advice and learn all about parenting from those who have been through what they are currently facing. Sharing your parenting experiences benefits the people you share them with. It is beneficial for you, too.
1. It makes you feel good inside
Sharing is giving a part of what you own to another so they can also benefit from it like you. When you think about it, sharing always leaves you feeling good inside. Expressing your parenting experiences awakens our feelings and emotions. Verbalizing these feelings to others make them more memorable. Knowing that someone else is listening to what you have to say makes you appreciate yourself more, which is another reason to feel good.
2. It strengthens bonds
Sharing experiences with others, whether for parenting or any other situation you find yourself in, helps strengthen bonds and forge new relationships. However, making connections isn't only about sharing your personal concerns. It is also about sharing your experiences as a parent and how you are managing. Some relate to your experiences, while others learn from them. You start developing good relationships with those who listen to you, and you get to stay connected with them. People who have a lot in common make good friends, and sharing parenting experiences provides opportunities to develop these friendships.
3. You learn from other people’s parenting experiences
When you share your parenting experiences, you can expect other parents to share theirs. There will always be something you can pick up from them, things that can help you improve your parenting skills, from communicating better with your children to creating a healthy home environment.
4. Your children benefit from what you learn
One of the most significant benefits of sharing parenting experiences is what your children gain from it. You can apply what you learn from other parents to your family and improve your relationship with your children. In addition, there may be things you do not know that can make a significant difference in your family life, lessons you learn from the experiences of other parents.
By sharing your parenting experiences, you are part of a community that provides you with support and the opportunity to share and learn.